Title says it all, but you gotta work together at it!

The primer--how we are different, what we want, and how to get what we want. Read together, to each other, or after each other and discuss what you read. Oops, I remember how discussions went with my ex--he said what it meant., that's how it was. Nope, guys, not the way. She has a voice.

After C.S. came to belief, he wrote such powerful stuff. Deep and abiding love really is more important than erotic love.

Do it T-O-G-E-T-H-E-R!! Together, together. Even the word is together--two gether--to gether--together! See? That's what it takes--together!

For learning how to be beautiful in your treatment of a woman, watch Fred Astaire. He is not a manly man, but his manliness is never in question. He is not handsome, but his looks are never in question. It is how he treats a woman. If a writer can think it, then a man can do it!

This movie can demonstrate how not to be and how to be in a loving, committed relationship. This movie is timeless. A woman can still be herself and it is possible for a man to love her.

Women, you cannot expect a man to remain calm if you indulge in a physical relationship outside marriage. How dumb!

The other man sings in that voice with animal magnetism.

Another man with a smoooooth voice!

Miles playing love. Uh huh. Too much!

It's Henry Mancini. If you're too old to know this orchestral master, try this CD.

I had forgotten about this movie, a remake of the Judy Holiday film. Melanie's and Don's characters had such chemistry. He taught her how to grow. Wisely, the director downplayed Don's arrogance and flipance to make him subdued and so totally attractive. A gem of a love story!

Map out our trip! (Oops, I've edited so many times. Just imagine the map is for Australia)

I always wanted to do this!

Knowing what to expect is better!

Of course, I will need a new camcorder to preserve memories of our wonderful trip....

A nice digital camera for recording photos of the trip

After we arrive home and because I love to read about books and find new ones to read, a nice magazine to satisfy that desire. And there you have it--what Judy really wants. Oops, did I say Judy? I meant what women really want and whatever YOUR choice of places to visit! May it happen!